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"Be An Attractive Man - No Matter
What You Look Like!"
When It Comes To Attracting Women, You're
Looks Aren't As Important As You Think...
One of the biggest issues I have to deal with when it comes
to my students is the idea that they are too ugly to attract
This insecurity comes in various shapes and sizes. For
Some guys think they're too old.
Some think they're too fat.
Some think they're too short.
Some think they're too ugly.
Because of this, these men feel they are helpless when it
comes to getting the kind of woman they desire.
But lucky for all of us - this simply isn't the case.
I want to take a moment and dispel a few attraction myths
that hold men back from achieving success in their love
Myth #1 - You have to be good looking to get
All you have to do is look around at the various types of
guys in this world who are dating gorgeous women to know that
this isn't the case.
As a general rule of thumb, I like to say: It's important
to look good, but it's not important to be good looking!
What's the difference?
Well, you can't help if you're good looking or not. But you
have COMPLETE control over how you present yourself. You
control the type of clothes you wear, how you groom yourself,
how you wear your hair, how you smell, etc.
All these appearance factors contribute to "looking
Even the most average looking guy can be attractive when he
takes control of his appearance.
Myth #2 - Women Think Like Men Do
It's natural to assume that everyone else in the world sees
things the same way you see them.
For instance - If you've ever had a pimple on your forehead
that felt so big, it was like everyone could see it. But the
pimple was under the skin, and in reality, no one but you
could tell it was there.
To you, it was clear as day. To everyone else, it was
When it comes to appraising other people, this methodology
is typically applied. You judge a woman based on how she
looks, right? You're able to size a woman up visually and
determine whether or not you find her attractive, correct?
So naturally, you assume women are going to size you up the
same exact way.
Women have different criteria for determining attraction
than men do. That's not to say they don't care if a man is
attractive or not. But they don't place as much importance on
physical characteristics as us guys do.
To women, attraction is based more around how men make them
feel, rather than how the men look. That is why women are
attracted to confidence and social status. They're attracted
to men who make them laugh. They're attracted to men who are
good at what they do. See how this works? Looks have very
little to do with any of this.
Myth #3 - Women Notice Our
Understand that we know ourselves better than anyone else
ever will. We are able to pick out every single flaw there is
about ourselves - our big ears, big nose, weak chin, receding
No matter what it is, we see it!
And because we see it, we assume everyone else does too.
But the fact is, most people aren't very observant, and unless
they specifically look for something to criticize you about,
they're not going to care about your insecurities, whatever
they may be.
A lot of guys try and dismiss their insecurities by calling
attention to it, as if to try and "diffuse" whatever it is
they feel is ugly about them. But all this does is draw the
woman's attention to this insecurity, and only at that point
do people notice it.
And insecurity is always UNattractive.
It's important, in every situation, that you always focus
on the good stuff about you, instead of your shortcomings, and
have the positives outshine the negatives.
Myth #4 - Good Looking Guys Have It
This is probably the biggest myth there is - that if a guy
is good looking, girls will automatically flock to him.
Good looking guys have their own struggles with women.
Sure, being physically attractive helps them initially, but in
the long run, they have the same issues other men have.
Attraction is about amping up the emotion that a woman
feels when she's around you, and linking it to you in such a
way where they only way she can get those feelings back is to
be around you.
If a man matches a woman's physical type, she'll gravitate
to him because those features make her feel good. But if the
guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those
feelings will go away.
However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn't
initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her
experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure - she
WILL become attracted to him eventually.
This is the fundamental concept of attraction - when you
make other people feel good, they will want to be around
You don't have to be a good guy to make women feel good!
You just need to know how to interact with them.
But the second aspect to this equation is SEXUAL
This is where, in addition to making people feel good, you
also turn them on.
This is where the aspect of seduction comes into play.
When you begin to lead a woman down the path of sexual
attraction, even if you don't look like Brad Pitt, she's going
to begin to see you in a whole new light - despite any of the
shortcomings you may think you have.
If you're serious about learning more on how to generate
attraction with women, despite how you look, I highly recommend
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I wish I had such a resource available to me when I first
started my journey to master my love life. But you better sign
up now, because I don't know if I'll be offering this course
Wishing you success,
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women